one's doing(Since the proposal was Evgeny's doing, his new fiancée was seemingly given a proverbial slap on the wrist in the form of an $11 fine.coasttocoastam.comART Vancouver)
write off(на кого-либо: "This is going to sound pretty blunt, I'm afraid. Father had written my sister off long ago. When they met he barely spoke to her." (Raymond Chandler) – отец давно махнул на неё рукойART Vancouver)